Divorce Busting My Wayward Wife

[HurtJef]

So the last couple of days have been tough. Friday my d8 told me that she had been struggling for a couple of weeks about something and proceeded to tell me that her friend tried to touch her inappropriatly. After calming D8 down and holding her she asked me to call mommy.

I tried but got no answer. A few moments later, I got a text asking what was up. I told her what D8 told me and she freaked out. I expected that b/c my ww was molested as a child by her neighbor. She said she felt sick to her stomach and that I needed to tell D8 that she loved her. D8 made me ask her to come home to see her. I did but ww said she couldnt and she would stop by tomorrow.( Saturday) to talk to her. My d8 was heartbroken. I did the best I could to calm her and d8 slept in my bed.

Saturday, ww came by after work and talked to D8. Ww and myself walked up and talked to d8 friends mom and came back home where ww told the kids she was gonna take them to see the fireworks on Sunday night. There was a homecoming carnival the next town over.

Well sunday am came and i got a text asking me if i wanted to go see the fireworks with them and I just said i didnt want to intrude on her kid time. She said ok. Well......evening came and went. No call...no show. The kids were devastated. I explained that it was raining.(it was lightly all day) and that the fireworks probably got cancelled. D8 said...i dont care about fireworks, i just wanted to see mommy! I texted her telling her that the kids were upset that she stood them up. I got no reply.

Monday: she showed up late of course...i didnt say anything...i just left.
When I got home...she was there watching a movie with SD15 while getting ready for work. I was cordial but my house was a mess. After she left, SD15 told me that ww left around 11a to get the keys to her new house she is renting and didnt come back til 3p. Sd15 said the younger kids made the mess and she was having a hard time handling them. I have always had an issue with my Ww leaving the younger kids alone with SD for long periods of time.

Yesterday(tuesday) wife got there on time!!! Yeay!
But around 3 ww calls me to tell me the kids are home alone and the power was out in my house. She said she couldnt find anyone to go over there and she was moving stuff into her house. I left work and went home. When I walked in, Sd15 was upset and screaming at the little ones. She told me that ww told her that ww's friend was coming over to watch them but never showed.

My Sd was freaking out and actually pushed my S6 down while arguing with him.
I tried to calm her down but she was losing it. I took her cell phone and told her to go upstairs and calm down. Yeah....no. She started trying to take the phone back from me and screaming at me. I went outside and called ww. No answer. She texted "whats up?" I told her to call me immediatly and she did. I told her what was going on but she said she would call me later on to talk about it cuz she was driving a moving truck and couldnt talk."

I went in and sat down with sd15 in her room. She told me she was sick of mommys lies and using her as her babysitter. She said the kids dont listen to her and she dosnt want to do that anymore. I apologized for not being able to help the sutuation. She hugged me and told me that she dosnt want to live with mommy.

Well do you think my wife ever called back to talk about this? Nope.

Today, ww wife showed up on time. I waited for her on the porch and had a stern but loving conversation about how the kids are feeling. She said that she has been busy and that she would talk to them. I told her that none of this situation is their fault and that they need her more than ever. She said she knows. I told her that she could not leave the kids with Sd15 anymore. She said ok and went in the house. I left pretty pissed today.