Update: Things are falling apart with the OW. Their private messages and friends are telling me she is seeing the real man he is and waking up. So... what's the best course of action here? He doesn't know that I know all this. Do I warm up a little or stay the course with detachment? Other thoughts? Thank you all so much.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
