DBing is all about plowing that MIDDLE ground, between angry accusations and doormat behavior. You are careening wildly from one extreme to another, and seem to be flying without a plan still. EXECUTING a plan is difficult enough, but to be this far along and not even HAVE one is troubling to me.
Starsky
This is tough... when your spouse is so up & down, it makes it very difficult to stay in the middle. I am fighting this battle of keeping my plan going with my H's ups & downs. And then you begin to feel like your plan should be modified with any change or when new info is discovered.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
