But if the other party has already left the marriage-- mind , body and soul , then it's just chasing something that isn't there . Her actions and words have all been 100% , and according to the counselors that shows her resolve to move on, she's exhibited nothing but a will to leave this marriage , there will never be an opening. Anger only lasts so long , she's at the stage of moving on, I tend to agree with the counselors --been more than a month and my wife can care less about me .
I'm really not trying to be a DB-mind controlled-zombie. But I want to ask you again. Specifically, what will be DIFFERENT when you "give up hope"?
Will you stop checking her FB? Stop waiting for her texts? Stop over analyzing every thing you or she does or did? Go out and make new friends? Take up new hobbies? Take better care of yourself? Think about your faults and change them? Better understand your needs for your next R?
All of these are things that have been advocated to you already. That's why I said that the way I see it, the only difference is starting to date again. Otherwise, I believe you will be so much more successful in ^^^ if you still have hope of R. But that's just my opinion.
