Hey AJ8 I just signed up on here. Going thru same thing as you. My wife filed for divorce 3 weeks ago. I have to have a response to the court within 30 days, so my time is running out. Seeing attorney on Friday. How do I progress thru this, I mean the divorce part? What have you done?....Do you just go along or you try and stall things out. What have you been told to do?