I'm very happy that you've posted an update. I'm sorry you signed over the vacation home and other property, but you can have that again some day. However, I am happy that you are in your new space and will be moving into a new house. The new house will be your space to decorate as you want and you will think of a way to add a front porch. I know you will figure that one out and it will be done to your specifications.
You've come a long way and have been an inspiration to many who come here. Please continue to post your journey because your postings are truly helping others.
I'm very proud of how far you've come. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.