Thanks for the encouragement and virtual high fives, Wonka! It's been a tough day, so to read your posts and the others, combined with a good divorce support group tonight, I feel much better.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
I would have truth darted W here: Our break-up?! No, there was no "our" break up. It was all one-sided which was incredibly devastating and hurtful thing to do. Save that bullshit for some other dope...not me.
I can say that I've been clear about this very point. But I haven't put it in a "truth darting" sort of way. I need to practice that, to be succinct and pointed and truthful, and just walk away.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19