IMHO, you should go to MC and then maybe that person can guide your H to seek help personally.
While things are going well, I am afraid he will go right back to the way he was because he isn't doing the work on himself to figure out what happened to him in the first place.
Honestly, I've seen VERY few M's here who have survived without some kind of C who guide the couple in the right direction.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
