That's just it Wonka. She is emphatically divorcing me, actively telling me how much she is in love with AP she is, how stupid I am, is refusing to pay her portion mortgage, has filed for some custody, has broken our family apart, and she wants to get groceries for my family as a nice gesture?
I honestly do not understand this. How can one person be so destructive on one hand and on the other wants to buy us groceries? Is they not a contradictory behavior?
Maybe I am being too black and white about the issue - all of nothing when there are many shades of grey that I am simply unable to comprehend.
What the heck am I missing? Am I supposed to say , yes ok that would be great while she metaphorically holds the knife to my throat? Really?
I don't know - confusion abounds for me. I am thinking out loud that I am not detached enough at all.
So a missed opportunity to connect is basically what you are saying. I can't see the forest for the trees.
