Hey shnswms,
I got caught up on your sitch. All the advice you have gotten so far is spot on.
Don't get discouraged. You are in the very early days of your sitch. I know it's hard to see everything clearly in the early stages.

I would encourage to try not to think or worry about what your W posts on Facebook or if she will text you. Maybe assume the worst and just come to terms with that. Mindreading is a fruitless pursuit that only leads to greater frustration for yourself.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15