The changes I am making are for me I need to become a better father and a better person and if she ever lets me a better husband
I think these are goals almost all of us have. However, these are definitely longview goals. Ask yourself how you would become a better father. Right it down. Hopefully there are a few specifics. Pick one of these and start there.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15