Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Originally Posted By: zew
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I'm very clear on what I want. She's welcome to come along for the ride.

Then start on that path today, and maybe she will. But make no mistake, the sooner the better.


Bingo. This ^^^.

I get the sense you're still waiting on her to define your future, NH. It's time to take your life back.


Starsky


Amen...

Amen...

And what is it that you truly want here?? It is still not clear here.

Finally, I still think the best step is for you to move out and get a 1-year lease. Then again, I am not you.

Buddy, 3 months isn't going to change the M. It is only 90 days. Not enough time for the sinking realization to hit W that you're GONE.