For me, I wanted to lay it all on the table for Tad for we all have had this discussion several times over a period of time. In my mind, it is time to push himself. No more BS.
It is not my place to tell (or imply) people that they're mentally ill...nor would I ever do it.
As you can see, Tad is very much stuck. We all have said this in some fashion over a long time:
-seek professional help -try one outing a week -try to connect with people -try a hobby/interest
We all have given our time here to support Tad. We all are very sympathetic to Tad's struggles.
I think it's pretty much the time to either chit or get of the pot. Yeah, sometimes it takes a person to step up and lay it all out here.
((Tad))
P.S. I have a close family member who suffers from agoraphobia...soooo....
