Absolutely ... its a "you and I against the world" type approach .. and "we are so meant for each other .. look at how well this is going ... well ya know .. cept for the broken family and all that .. but besides all the lies and deceit I mean we are really meant ot be together ... well once you get D'd and move out that is"
Once your W wakes up and realizes the flaws ... Guess who shines like an angel, the lighthouse ... you have to gain strength before this .. trust me.
It all goes back to that one thing relationships need ... Foundation.... which is built on trust. Something ... like you I stumbled on early when I planted seeds. Right now they are on a high ... but when that fades then there is all that second guessing. They do not have that, and it can never be done now as the house has already been built ... in time it will crumble.