Dif, just read the letter from the predator. Yikes!! I am sure it is common that the OP is advised on how to deal with LBS. I can tell it in some of what my H says. It just does quite sound lthe way he would say it.
So, why would she give her your joint email account. She was obviously not going to try and hide it.
Definitely sounds like an affair down IMHO!!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015