The way they described it one can heal w/o jumping into another relationship--according to them clinging to any hope can prolong the self healing process Bc subconsciously you have that hope and each time it's let down it takes one several steps back on healing ...that minuscule 5% chance is nothing but a lie to oneself and can delay or hinder the progress of healing/improving and ultimately moving on .

I hope they'd be wrong but in my case my wife has proven she's already gone and has not turned back or doubted her decision

Last edited by Aj8; 07/14/15 09:09 PM.
Me:35 W:30
7 years together
11 months married
No children
W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015
W filed for D: July 2015