You have come to a good place. Definitely get the books as they will help you u understand the process better. I feel for you and your children. My WW is an autism specialist and we own a business together. It is hard on a family to have special needs children . It certainly adds a complexity to the situation. You certainly should get advice from your lawyer. No need in having your folks play lawyer when you already pay for one. Keep posting and people will come.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
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