Originally Posted By: desp13
I just think she is trying to replace love with hate some how that might be easier to forget me.. not really giving it that much thought although I do feel like asking her why so much hate and anger


Anger isnt a bad thing, and wont replace love. Many people confuse anger for the opposite of love, when its indifference thats the opposite. Anger still shows a connection, it can still show love. Anger is also a secondary emotion and generally has to do with something else. Which is likely about her not you. So asking her will do nothing for you, she may not even recognize where its coming from.

Originally Posted By: desp13
yeah it must be, cuz now she just asks a questions about the baby or money, I respond then thats it no answer back before I use to get an "ok" at least, now there is no followup to my response. I guess she must not be happy still, cuz if she was she wouldn't had the need to see me as the enemy.'


Still about her, not you. Mindreading will get you all kinds of places, many of which will cause you issues. I've done/still doing enough of it to know.


Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be