My H contacted our MC/my IC after he signed in Thurs and asked for a call back.
She wanted to clear it with me, before she did, and I told her that was fine.

We agreed that I should not send the letter, because it is more of me trying to solve problems indirectly. If he wants to make an effort, I will listen and consider, but as long as he is talking to everyone but me, I am moving forward with this divorce.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.