Cadet, Me 53, H 48, 2nd marriage for him. he has two grown kids. H has history of depression and chronic pain issue. Me kind of a control freak, sometimes out of necessity. In the last 3 years H has lost both parents, several surgeries, off work a lot. Things have been stressful off and on but never thought we would end up here. Friends and family are shocked at his behavior. He also has a spending/collecting issue. But underneath it all he is/was a good guy.


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming