Hey dwh. Sorry you are here my friend. Start with reading sandi2's posts on the WW mindset. And don't be scared of your W. You do what's right for you so as long as the kids are ok and with you I'd keep a hold of my own money. After all you're just enabling.

Peace

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.