I'm spending time with her because she is willing to do so, and she's being kind and gentle, she's showing some affection, etc.
If she begins to pull away or starts getting distant and mean again, then I will pull back, but for now, I'm comfortable with it.
I sensed a little deception today on the phone, as she said she has "an appointment" at 8 am on Saturday. W is usually more specific than that. I'm not going to mind read though, and I wasn't about to ask for specifics.
I'm also more in control of my emotions now, and I feel as though I can handle myself better around her.