Thanks Ralphy/Matt, spoke to several marriage counselors , they confirmed what I thought , she's moved on and won't be back-her words/actions all have been done , she never even communicates with me or wants to see me (been almost 2 months now) and when a wife does this she's moved on permanently and I'm just chasing dreams if I even think there's a chance. This board helped me detach and work on myself , which i will continue to do but the marriage and women I loved is gone ..
This is garbage advice. Where's the line to say she has "moved on" - 3 days? A week? A month? She's mad, yes. Clearly. And hurt. But who's to say tomorrow she won't wake up wanting to R.
That's why, ultimately, we, as LBS's hold the power. At any time, we can let go and decide to be done. But is that what you WANT?
