Hi Luke. First of all...pfffft on your mindreading skills..lol. All I have to say is burn dat hat. .
So, I get that you are analyzing where you're at, where she's at, where the marriage stands. I know it's hard not to do that, but, don't do it anyway.
I know there needs to be some of that, but, there also needs to be some of you just living your life and seeing where this goes. There has to be less worrying about what she is thinking and what it all means and more enjoying the moments you are in.
I know you think you are doing that, but, you aren't really. While you need to continue to build a strong foundation, you also have to trust that it will unfold as it should because it is in His very capable hands.
Let go around her some, Luke. Relax, laugh, just enjoy time with your family. That's what matters...all those little moments, those memory making times, ya know?
Ok, so that didn't hurt too much..I used extra plush padding...cuz I like ya.
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