I took a few minutes to get caught up on your sitch and I have a question, as our sitches appear to be similar. If you are not sure that the A is over, why do you think it is a good strategy to be spending so much time with your W? I apologize if this question was already addressed previously.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15