I have found myself in the same situation as many

[EyeTie]

I think every one of us has heard the "Too little too late" speech. What your WW is seeing is a drastic change in desperate times. Over the years she has pleaded for these changes and at this point has given up hope.

Do not talk to her about the R. Do not bring out old photo's. Do not talk about your wedding day. Nothing. NO RELATIONSHIP TALK! Follow Sandi's rules, study them, they do work. Sometimes it takes time!

My W moved out on Valentines Day! I came home from work and my house looked like I got raided by the feds. I spent December 2014-V-Day trying to prove to her that I changed. It's now July and she is finally realizing the changes I made are for real and the best part is that I don't know if I want her back! She went from not calling/texting for days to at least 3-4 texts a day! Because I detached. Give it a shot!

Read Sandi's rules, GAL, act like you are ok and moving on! Believe me, this stuff works!