I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

Ok so this is the current situation that I am in ...how do I stop talking to my recently separated wife about the past and how do I stop telling her how sorry I am and how do I stop trying to convince her to try again I know it is now starting to make her cross and she thinks all I am trying to do is wear her down and that I do not listen to her

She tells me that I was not their for her during the marriage and now it is too little too late she says I am crowding her

I did not do my share of the house work and now I am doing my share and then some she says it does not matter to her any more.

I thought that if I was doing more with the kids and more with the house work ...the things that she wanted during the marriage then this would or might make her believe in me and open up to working things out

We still live in same house and generally we do get along but I always find myself saying to her can I ask you something ....and then this usually leads to me trying to make things right and discuss what went wrong I just need to stop but I always seem to be finding my way back to this point.

Somehow I have to stop but am struggling to distance myself from her

Gary