Hi Pink. Just catching up Wow. That meeting sounds like a real heart wrencher, I am so sorry your H is such a jackass at the moment. Stupid man He's is going to regret this so much.

You are worth so much more than this and you will get so much more in the future. H is lost and there is nothing you can do.

Pink , cuddle those boys of yours , it's an incredibly tough time for you all but you have each other Those boys need their mum and they are so lucky to have a mum like you. Stand strong but don't be afraid to ask for help from them. Your their mum and the most special person in their lives Your their rock and that's tough for you right now but you have the strength to do this

I wish I could give you a big hug and tell you face to face that this will be ok I truly believe it will. Your H is a mess right now and it's only time until he realises what he's losing

This is a time for you to take stock , get yourself together and look to what you have and not what you don't have From you posts it's clear you love H and are torn by what's happening This isn't the end It's not the end until Pink decides it is and you shouldn't make any choices while this is all still so fresh

You talk of love and will you ever love again and you will but slow down ,'deal with the cr@p you have to and let all your feelings settle. You have a long and happy life ahead of you and it starts today.

You are a caring , passionate , loving , fun , exciting person and NONE of that has changed Yes your heart is hurt and you are dealing with a terrible time BUT your Pink !!!!! Pink CAN handle this and come out stronger.

Cira , your my friend and I think the world of you , when you post I can't wait to see what youve been upto or I hope to read a story from your past. Pink brings joy to my life and like I said to Toots , I envy the man you choose to have in your life next and I truly hope that your H emerges from the fog before he loses your love

I'm at work at the moment and I have a few meetings this afternoon so I will check in later to see how you are.

Lots of hugs and kisses and please believe me when I tell you that we will take that bike ride across Glendalough and sit down to dinner and talk of how we are lucky to have got through our younger years , riding bikes the way we did !!!!!!

take extra care and think positive , it's tough now but you have some much happiness ahead of you. Rd. xxxx