Summer of Growth and Acceptance

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Job, thanks for your suggestions. I think I have decided to bring up number 1 (in the way Zues suggested) and 3 and 4.

H says he is not angry, but he sure comes off that way in how is reacts and deals with me. The heart of anger is hurt and pain, so maybe that is why he says he is not angry?! I just don't understand or recognize this person.

I started off on DBing being very empathetic and compassionate towards H, but that waned when A came to light and realized the extent of the lying to me. I suppose I need to look at him doing those things out of the internal pain he has. I need to get back to operating from a place of love again, but it is really hard to find that now.

Feeling very lost and confused about situatio/H these days.