Both of his texts translate to "you are misunderstanding me"

I don't see MLC. I see misunderstood. After putting that long post together and seeing this response I am starting to know how he feels.

I have faith you can handle your sitch, so I'll ease off on the 2x4. It just seems so clear to me I couldn't help myself. I truly feel it is in your hands to save or lose this M.

Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15