Thank you for the reply Cadet. Already have an update. WW texted me today wanting more financial help. I've been giving her money every month since we separated but just can't continue to do so, without risking well being of myself and the kids. I'm unemployed and down to a few weeks of remaining severance pay. Not to mention, the kids never spend an overnight with her and she barely sees the 2 special needs kids at all. The other 2 go over for dinner and spend 3-4 hours 2 or 3 times every week. Hardly what I would call a 50-50 custody arrangement. So I cut her off and said there won't be another dime without a court order. She obviously wasn't happy. I am meeting with my own attorney this week just to fill him in and get advice but don't plan on filing just yet. No idea what WW plans on doing next but I doubt she can even come up with money to hire an attorney.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.