FY, thank you so much. I always feel so much better after reading your posts. I just don’t think I can do what you suggest yet. I don’t feel H is open to anything like that. So, I just continue… On my own… I do realize that even people on this board are fed-up with my sitch.
You're welcome Bright, and thank you for being MY cheerleader!
You are stronger than you think, and have more power than you know.
If you make a move, ANY move, it'll be for you, not your H.
I know I always felt better when I took at least a BIT of control in my sitch. Said something, did something, or tried something. It didn't matter if it didn't always "work" the way I had hoped... There was movement! Action and excitement! SOMETHING.
I figure it's better to say/do something constructive before we blow our top and are triple done. Nothing good will come then. Our spouses deserve this. We can't wait until we're surprising them with papers!
Don't give up, Bright. Continue to stand for your marriage as long as you can... It's the nobel thing to do. But think, think hard of something new you can do.
When you do it will give you wings!
Last edited by ForeverYoung; 07/14/1504:13 AM.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
