Ok, so apparently I missed my window of opportunity to talk to H. I tried call him an no answer. So, sent TM saying I was trying to reach him because I thought he wanted to chat.
H: No,, you thought I wanted to chat tonight. Nevermind. M: Was to aviod high emotions yesterday. Want nice convo. Sorry you are so angry.
H: Don't tell me I am angry.
You cannot win with an MLCer.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015