I'm sitting on the letter I wrote trying to evaluate my reasons for sending it and outcomes.

A) I want to call him out on the duplicity/authenticity issues - remind him this is about how he treated me and he was done. Disingenuous to say I wanted the D,
B) business like let him know my experience and how it doesn't look like a conflicted man over D
C) express myself to him.
D) let him know there was no one else.

1) he says ok let's talk (crap. I may never find my way back to dodging this bullet.)
2) he says a lot of mean nasty twisty things and I hurt some more
3) it's ignored and I wnd up D soon.

Does a story like mine ever end up happily ever after? Do Lifetime movies (but I loooove him) ever have happy endings where sick ppl become well adjusted and the sun shines again?


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.