You lil' devil...I am always discovering new things about you when you're hanging out at the Newcomer's pool.
Saw this post over in u-turn's thread:
Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
Men and our emotions. From the time we are .. well boys .. we are programmed that showing those 'bad' emotions makes one weak .. .you even touched on it that someone who shows anger has a lack of self control. We are taugh those things from all the men in our lives, Fathers, frineds, their fathers, look around .. its everywhere ... men are not to have feelings.
Recently I had to write a letter, a very long letter ... and give it to my wife (she had to do the same). Her immediate reply "I had no idea you even had feelings" I looked at her with a WTF look, but realized ... I was never allowed to show them. Sure happy and good feelings are accepted, now ant then we build up to the point we might vent anget and thats is always considered bad .. but what about sadness ... a guy crying? Pffft my father would dig himself out of his grave to smack the crap out of me.
Cali, I am wondering if that ^^ coupled with the "missing fun Cali" is something that your W is looking for in Cali 2.0 as a way to cement the The Calis marital bond.
