Defacto- would that have ever happened if you hadn't been served D papers?
Not saying it's right or wrong, just curious.
I'm assuming the answer is 'no', and if so then you just regroup and reread your mission statement. No one besides you and that individual should ever think of it again. But I would encourage you to shut that down going forward until you are fully D'd, have accepted that to the core, and have waited long enough to know that it won't turn around. That's just me though. Take care!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15