Z, thank you for sharing. As you have read in my posts my wife tells me me I am vebally and emotionally abusive. I am certain I have never done anything close your what your WH has done. However, this does shine a light on how unhealthy my W and I have become. I wonder now if she is afraid we will get to the point hour WH is one day. Perhaps her affair was once she was out the door mentally and knew she was never coming back. I know I would have been receptive to help if She told me how she felt. By that time the affair had started and now now she wont stop. She has headed down the road of divorce and does not seem to be looking back. I wish I could offer advice on your sitch. If you feel your husband really loves you but is sick I can understand. However, if he refuses help IDK what you can do.
I will say that I am affraid to admit any wrong doing to my wife because I am affraid she will use it against me. I tried this before and it just back fired.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
