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Re: Hello from south of la la land lionhrt #2587632 07/13/15 09:16 PM
Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2 H HaWho OP Member
OP HaWho Member H Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 1,597 Likes: 2	Thank you Lionhrt. This time around what helped me to detach was to realize I don't want this guy. I don't know what the end product will be/if I will even want that. So I realize there is no point in trying to hold on to him. I am holding on for the sake of holding on. I am also starting to realize that although I have work to do on myself, if this R is viable at some point in the future, I need things to change on his end, too. Who knows if he is even willing to see that and make any concessions on his end. Going in to this he could not admit even the smallest fault. Meanwhile I am a pleaser. From up here in my detachment perch I see the cycle. Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced

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Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/29/15 10:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/29/15 11:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Wonka	06/30/15 05:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 06:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	06/30/15 06:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 07:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	06/30/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 09:37 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 10:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Sotto	07/01/15 12:13 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/01/15 04:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Georgiabelle	07/01/15 07:06 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/01/15 08:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 02:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 07:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 12:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 12:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 01:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 03:51 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/10/15 04:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 05:19 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 05:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	dejavu2	07/10/15 05:40 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/10/15 06:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 06:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/10/15 10:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/10/15 11:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:24 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/11/15 07:51 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 09:36 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/11/15 12:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/11/15 02:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 10:55 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/12/15 11:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 06:53 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 07:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/13/15 08:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/13/15 09:16 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Rouky	07/14/15 06:32 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 04:45 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 05:52 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 06:38 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 07:01 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:30 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/15/15 07:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 07:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:17 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 08:21 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 08:31 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/15/15 09:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 10:35 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:34 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 11:47 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 09:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/16/15 10:50 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 12:24 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	2BHappy	07/18/15 02:37 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/18/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 07:14 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/20/15 10:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 10:57 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/20/15 11:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 01:25 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 05:30 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/21/15 05:18 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/21/15 10:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 04:18 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 07:03 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 08:05 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	beatrice	07/22/15 09:00 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 12:00 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/22/15 02:11 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	job	07/22/15 09:55 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/15/15 09:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 08:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/01/15 08:25 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	Cadet	07/02/15 02:22 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	LouR	07/02/15 11:39 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 03:08 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 04:29 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	lionhrt	07/01/15 08:41 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/01/15 10:02 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	asitis	07/01/15 11:44 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/02/15 12:08 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/04/15 05:38 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 01:56 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 05:05 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/04/15 08:28 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	claire7	07/05/15 12:04 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/05/15 12:46 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	ForeverYoung	07/05/15 05:01 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/06/15 12:16 AM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 05:54 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	CaliGuy	07/09/15 08:23 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 09:12 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	kml	07/09/15 10:15 PM
Re: Hello from south of la la land	HaWho	07/09/15 11:01 PM

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