I have read your thread, HopeOk, and I can see a lot of thoughts you are having are the same thoughts I am having now, even after months of BD and H filing.

Detaching and patience is the key, easy to say but I so very difficult to do.

Keep going, stay strong!

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15