Newbie needing support and advice

[ep0215]

So here are my goals:

1) Will call me first
2) Will show some form of affection, touch arm, side hug, etc.
3) Will make a plan to talk without son around

He has done #1, working on the other two. I put 3 as a goal because in the phone conversation we had last week he made a comment about wanting to continue talking not on the phone but in person. I said I am available to talk when he is ready and to let me know when he is ready. This was a big 180 for me since I always wanted to talk about things right now, not waiting.