Ok, my story is similar to many. Husband going through a mid-life crisis. Is in the ministry but quitting... having an EA (PA??). We moved out of state so its all long distance but he is nothing but angry toward me and loving & committed towards her. Only staying for the kids he says. But there are moments he still talks to me... seems to be making some effort at connection. I confessed all my mistakes to him & realized what I've done over 12 years to get us to this point (of course, he had a part in it too). Anyway... he says he needs me to fill his emotional needs, despite him seeking after those things with the OW. That's the only way to work on things, he says. He's been a counselor before and can really work things around. So I'm still confused... I do want to work on things but I also know as long as OW is in the picture, how can we work on things??
Thoughts?
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
