I haven't read your sitch in entirety, however, these last few posts caught my eye. I may sound harsh and here is the reality.
Whenever I read a post where the BD is in 2015, and the person is discussing dating, it lets me know the person is afraid of being alone. Trust me..it svcks to feel the pain, however this is a scenario you have to go through it to get through it.
I'm sure your wife is lovely. Jealousy is a most interesting emotion IMVHO, although, the only person you control is you. Life is short. I know you want to save your M. However, focusing on what your W is doing will make you crazy. It is not productive for you or for saving your m.
Hang in there. It gets much better:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
