Part of me thinks this is W way of getting back at me because I would not have S an extra week in summer because she wanted a 2 week vacation with OM.
I have also wondered if she is trying to get a reaction out of me. Same with the FB deleting me then adding me back etc. Then the new profile pick with OM almost straight away from adding me on there again. I have been quietly carrying on with my own life and doing my best to avoid W antics and have wondered if all this is part of some way to get me to notice her more.
It is also why I think she has u-turned re the D settlement and the fact that I initiated D in the end. I took control of the sitch and she didn't like it. U-turning on the financial settlement is her way of trying to regain control over the sitch. But all that is way too much mind reading on my part so I need to stay off that if I can help it.
I can't see anything happening fast with a new carer so will speak to W properly about it in the next week when I have got over the frustration of her actions. One thing I have learned in this process is not to react, take the information in, process it and then prepare my words carefully when I speak to W. In fact I try and anticipate situations and rehearse my responses every week when I pick up S. However, a few things still catch me off guard
