Just Fishin'

[mahhhty]

As you may remember, I believe I disproved my memory theory, when the email chain went silent and she did not respond. I believed that was b/c I was asking about her upcoming trip and she did not want to disclose information. However, on Thur I still had not told her about taking the kids out of the state (which is required in our parenting plan). So I texted her and she responded...

Me: FYI. I’ll be taking the kids to western MA tomorrow. Also, your mother will have your check.

Her: Okay, they'll love that. They actually have their suitcases, so they will be excited to fill those. I'll text you before I call this weekend to make sure it is a good time to talk to them. I'll be out of the country so it may be at a different time due to time zone difference. Have fun and give them kisses for me, they are excited to see you.

I thought it was interesting that she mentioned leaving the country. After I had just disproved my mirror theory. After she responded I dropped the ball and choose not to respond.

All of this goes to two points... Don't mind read and really step back. I need to for my sanity and my future. To leave her life to her. I keep saying it. And I think I am doing it but I want to do more of it. I don't need her. I am a better person than when this started, I want to keep it going.