So I know that I have to try to gal however the thoughts of my wife going out with other guys whilst she and I have separated is hurting me
How do people get past this ?
I know I am a very jealous person ...I do not know why ...it is probably my own insecurity
Throughout our 17 year marriage not once did my wife give me any reason to doubt her honesty and her commitment to me why do I feel so insecure ? How Can I get over this ?
Getting a life doesn't mean DATE. You....can....if that's what you eat, but I don't see how that gets you closer to your goals. What you really want is the illusion of doing your own thing. You want your WAW to think that there's a real chance if she walks away, that you WILL move on. You don't want to sit in the same spot she left you!
As for her dating, it's bound to happen eventually down this road. If you get fired from a job, they're eventually going to hire a replacement. Your best bet is to make yourself the most appealing candidate. Not easy, though.
