Wonka, I have that book on my shelf already. Family/marriage therapist, remember? It is a great book, and I use it all the time with couples. I will definitely pull it down and read through it again on my own and then work through the activities with her. I think the MC I have selected does therapy based quite a bit on Gottman, since he is just so amazing at helping couples make those connections to each other again.
Side note, I forwarded on the information request reply from Retrouaville to W. She responded that she is absolutely sure about going. She then proceeded to tell me that she does not want to be up there. S5 asked her this morning if he could come back to daddy's after school, with mommy! Love that little boy, and his and my relationship are really showing her how life can be different.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present