Now I remember why I write on here, it is sooooo helpfull !!

Doing GAL is hard because I am blank when my therapist asks me what does Cindy likes, what does Cindy wants to do for herself....I can't answer her....working on it but I have been with my H since age 15, so I didn't even know who I was then.

Hard work finding myself.
Re-focusing on me .....

Thanks everyone again !!! I feel better already.