We my wife and I started piecing I did not know about any affairs for sure. I suspected, but had no direct knowledge. About a month ago we had a disagreement about something and in the quarrel I inadvertently gained some knowledge that set me back mentally. Actually hit me a little harder than I thought it would.
Trust me when I say, if you are willing to reconcile regardless of his faithfulness, let it alone and do not ask. It serves you not. Today, tomorrow, or ever.
Hi Jefe,
I've been thinking. Does this mean that full transparency is not required in order to start piecing? I'm just confused and trying to understand what my next steps are. I guess I'm just scared to go back in the marriage, scared to trust again. I don't think I/the M can survive if this happens again to me and my H .
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