Hey Ralph...good stuff here. Glad you had a nice time and kept things in perspective.
One thing I am going to say... You will need to eventually forgive your wife for all of those things, no matter how things turn out. You need to do that for your own sanity. Does not have to be today. You are not ready for that. But sooner or later...maybe when the dust settles on everything, maybe before that, will be up to you, you will have to let all of the anger go about what she has done.
It is part of really dropping the rope. I get that you don't even know all the things that she may have done...I really get that, but truth will come out one way or another at some point.
