NDY it is very normal to accept that it is over. Once we accept it the healing can begin. Read Sandis thread about the WW and how the LBS should react. Dont put your life on hold. Do the opposite. It takes time to get there so be kind to yourself.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden